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Monday, June 23, 2008

The Essence of a Hampton Beach vacation


Here we are at Hilton Head Island, 15 of us (11 adults and 4 kidlets) enjoying a Hampton beach vacation. Most of us agree that HH beats out any Florida site hands down, primarily because of the beautiful shade trees everywhere and the lack of tee-shirt and trinket shops and not having to share a pool with a condo=full of people. Karen started us out with a (literal) bang, having two seizures in quick succession after being 5 years seizure-free. Therefore, her dad and I spent our first night in the ER with her as she got checked out (ok though with a wrenched back and bumped head). Taking it slowly--which is the only way she takes things anyhow--we have managed a couple of beach expeditions and some pool times, some Wii bowling (which she wins almost every time) and one girls-only shopping trip to a stitchery shop. The 20- and 30-somethings are having their evening out tonight while we three old f's are keeping watch over the kidlets. (We'll have our night out later.) The other evenings we take turns cooking and cleaning up. Brian and Steph set a high bar for us all with their shish-kebobs last night. The picture of Karen and Drew captures the essence of the fun.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Inaugural Picnic



It's not summer at the Hampton residence without picnics (on the deck). Well, no deck here, but picnics are still possible. We had our first tonight with Karen's group home gals and caregiver. Standard picnic fare: burgers and brats, chips, baked beans, pasta salad, and brownies. All enthusiastically received. Ordinary food somehow tastes better if it is at someone else's house! The gals ate at the dining room table and at a table in the adjacent three-season room. What impressed the girls the most about the house was my print of Vermeer's "Milkmaid" hanging over the "new" breakfront in the dining room. It fostered much interesting conversation--about the Amish, about Dutch dancing costumes and the Tulip Festival, about how my own pitcher and bowl (made in Wooster by Moorefield Pottery folk) resemble the pitcher and bowl in the picture, and, most significantly, how some girls who wear those things on their head can get hurt. We think that this gal was vaguely remembering the fuss about Muslim headscarves in France, though how she would have is mysterious because I don't think she watches the news as some of the other do. What very special first picnic guests!! (One of the gals is not in the pic because she works late on Wednesdays.)

Anther kind of diversity

And then there is cultural diversity--all within the context of the denominational structure to which I have returned. My dad took me to a concert at Raybrook a week ago for the independent living folk, assisted living folk , even some nursing home folk and friends of Raybrook. It was a southern-style men's gospel quartet, as good as I have ever heard and much appreciated by the full-house audience. Then yesterday I returned for an equally well appreciated book review/lecture--if the number of questions afterwards is any indication. The former editor of the Banner was reviewing N.T. Wright's Suprised by Hope quite favorably. The room was full of still intellectually engaged people (I brought the average age down quite a bit and, seriously, was the only non-white head). As many of you know, I'm a great N.T. Wright fan (if also discerning, I hope). Kuyenhoven referred to Calvin CRC's former pastor, Rev. Boomsma, as having found solace in N.T. Wright's work. One conclusion I have drawn from this tiny sampling of G.R./CRC's offerings (Raybrook, for those of you who don't know, is a CRC-associated retirement community): lots of diversity here!

Friday, June 13, 2008

First Impressions

At first glance, Summertime Court seems like a pretty homogeneous place: A set of about six or seven modest but attractive house plans for 32 houses up and down a cul de sac. However, because the planners had not taken down any more trees than necessary, each house looks quite distinct with its own variety of trees, whether just a few or a veritable forest. All have significant shade, yet each has its own special garden, however modest or elaborate. We have quite a bit of sun in the front, but we make up for it with a vengeance with our twelve trees in the back (and about a thousand baby trees that I have yet to pull up). My naïve belief that a yard without grass meant a yard without work has been rudely disturbed. Weeds and baby trees fill that empty space. My battle with acorns is not over.

When we pulled in two weeks ago, we noticed that our neighbors among them had a significant number of cars and trucks but also a full-sized tractor-trailer rig, a monster sized boat and oversized truck to pull it, and an RV. It appears that “real” people live here, people who love their vehicles, undoubtedly far more than we do. Our next-door neighbor is a long-haul independent trucker—a difficult occupation these days of high gas prices. That rig is in and out, here and not here. Across the street, the owners of the boat, RV and stretch truck, a retired couple, seem to spend an inordinate amount of time keeping said vehicles spotlessly cleaned. Right now all have disappeared, so I assume that they have taken them to a Michigan lake to enjoy some summer recreation. The traffic is far heavier than I’d have imagined for being at the end circle. Many big wheels, skate boards, scooters and bikes have also made their appearances now that school is out. I love hearing the voices of children playing; I’ll have that all year long because only a fence separates our back yard from a day care center.

The other factor that we quickly noticed and rejoiced in is the multi-ethnic quality of our neighborhood. The truck driver is a (divorced with two kids who were the first to greet us) Vietnamese fellow. Many African-Americans live on the cul de sac. The neighbor on the other side is a single white working mom (I’d guess in her early 30s) who has fostered about 11 young children and has adopted one of them. She has two little girls at home now who scream with glee in the sprinker and take turns (sort of) on the tiny trike. She was still mourning the loss of the folk from whom we had bought our house, a Guatemalan couple, because she is passionate about multi-ethnicity and racial reconciliation. She goes to the GR CRC church that represents those passions best. The retired Dutch couple fits ethnic stereotypes the best: not only do the boat and RV come in for their daily dose of scrubbing, she sweeps the driveway and sidewalk every day to remove any traces of lawn debris (how Kentwood disposes of such is the topic of another blog post). May I never be so bored as to be reduced to that, even if I have to keep it in the weekly schedule! Oh, and when we saw the street in the spring, the Ron Paul signs were in abundance. One still remains, but it has been joined by an Obama sign. We’re only ethnically diverse, but politically diverse as well. It should only be a matter of time until the candidates appear to enjoy Summertime Court as well.

Monday, June 09, 2008

The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away....

...blessed be the name of the Lord.

I hadn't decided whether I'd continue blogging from G.R. It will undoubtedly be intermittent, but it is a significant way that I keep up with a certain (western) half of my family.

What the Lord gave was a house sale in a dreadful market, just before we moved. What the buyer took away, and what we must accept as the Lord's will, is that same sale. All sales are of course contingent on inspections. We had moved before ours, but we got a phone call afterwards from our realtor, who reported that the inspector had said he'd buy the house and there was nothing for us to fix. We floated on clouds for three days, knowing just how hard we had worked to make the house as good as possible. Then came another phone call. Evidently our buyer (whom, our realtor reports, she had never seen smiling) read into the written report that a crack in the basement wall, that we had never seen because it was behind the washer and dryer and that the inspector only said needed to be filled and sealed, was caused by water underneath our 60 x 20 deck undermining the foundation. We felt that was absurd in part because we have never had a leak in the basement, but the buyer could not shake the notion. She flew to Wooster Saturday to meet some building people to discuss the crack. They assured her that the yard was graded such that all water flowed away from the house. They speculated that perhaps the shower the floor above the crack was heavy enough to cause it. In any case, the house was neither going to fall down nor did it need expensive fixes (such as the $30K she felt was needed to rip out the deck, regrade and put another deck on). She immediately returned to her out-of-state home and then next day (yesterday), she emailed her rescension (is that a word?--she rescinded the contract). For her price range and geographical range, its hard to think that she will be able to find another house as structurally sound and (superficially) well decorated as ours. Since we don't know her, it is hard to read her motivations, but I do know that Jesus would want us to pray for blessings on her. That's what we're doing, if not with joy, at least with obedience.

We are addressing the three items the inspection pointed out (no explanation of the disconnect between the verbal assurance of no problems and these listed in the written report): the outside electrical supply cords, the roof (again, we have never had any leaks, but the inspection said it is at the end of its useful age and so we are having Amish roofers (whose abilities the buyer also questioned because of their reasonable bids) replace that, and the crack in the basement wall (as soon as a contractor can give us some advice). I must fax the papers to Chuck in Kansas City, where he is grading AP Calc for ten days, and he must fax them to our realtor. It goes back on the market tomorrow. We will wait to rejoice again in what the Lord will give.